Iss Saal

Hey!

I have started writing again, not blogs but small quotes on http://www.YourQuote.in! It is actually quite an easy platform to write and post but the real magic lies when it slowly brings out the writer in every person. It feels good to write small quotes but continuously and then you have something to do, something really constructive and productive to do.

So as time stops for none, 2016 is just about to end and people are looking for new year resolutions so that they can change something in next year. A friend of mine just asked me: “What is your resolution for the next year?” and I realized that I don’t need any resolution this year. I told her: “I am not taking any resolution this time because these resolutions are never completed, we break them on the very first day.”

Then I thought that we actually do not require a resolution, it is a fancy word. I believe whatever we want to change, we shall just decide that change inside us and do it.

She then asked me, “Don’t you want to change anything next year?” I said, “I do, a lot.”

While I was replying to her I thought of writing the complete changes I want to make:

Maine socha hai, Iss Saal..

Thoda Zada Padhunga,

Thoda Zada Likhunga,

Thoda Zada Bolunga,

Thoda Zada Dekhunga,

Thoda Zada Khaunga,

Thoda Zada Khelunga,

Thoda Zada Khaunga,

Thoda Zada Ghumunga,

Thoda Zada Piyunga,

Thoda Zada Sochunga,

Thoda Zada Tandurust Rahunga,

Iss Saal Sa Kuchh Thoda Zada Karunga.. Lekin ek aur fark aur hoga..

Iss Saal Jo Bhi Karunga.. Apne Liye Karunga..

Aur Iss Saal.. THODA ZADA JIYUNGA! 🙂

 

Jo Chalta Hai Chalne Do!

25th Jan’15

Jaanta hu ye taareekh shayad hi kisi ko yaad hogi lekin ye woh taareekh hai jis din maine aakhri bar yaha iss “THE CLIPBOARD” pe kuch likha tha.

Aisa nahi hai ki mann nahi hua likhne ka lekin kuch tha nahi likhne ko, jo tha uss se main khush tha aur mujhse woh. Laga sabko batane ki zarurat nahi hai!

Shayad sudhar bhi gaya hu, ab har kisi ko apne dil ki baat bhi nahi batata! Vaise ye likh kar maine ye saabit kar diya ki andar se aaj bhi wahi hu. Shayad insaan badalta nahi hai.. sirf waqt badalta hai!

Kaise ho sab?

Bhot din ho gaye sabse baat kiye, sabko bataye kuch achi buri baatein. Main nahi jaanta ki kisi ne mujhe yaad kiya ya nahi kiya lekin maine sach main bahut yaad kiya. Kayi bar socha likhu lekin haath ruk gaye. Aur agar koi aisa hai jisne mujhe yaad kiya toh shayad ye thoda ussi ke liye hai. Lekin ab ye thoda mere liye bhi hai!

Bhot din hue likhe hue, shayad isliye kyuki ek dabbe main band sa tha, naya sochna aur karna band kar diya tha! Toh kuch mehsus nahi hua ki tum logo ko batau.. jo tha woh khud ke liye tha. Aaj ek wahi purani kahani meri, movie dekhi toh thoda stupid inspiration hua toh bas likh raha hu.

Yaar bade bade jhatke lage iss beech, ek taraf ek National Award Jeeta (Jiski aaj shayad koi value nahi hai kisi ke liye, shayad mere liye bhi nahi rahi!), Jiske liye Award mila tha woh sapna bhi khatam ho gaya.. (Kuch log aaj bhi I’m OYSTERed likhe hue hain apne status main! :D), Kuch ache saathi mile jo zindagi bhar saath rahenge, Haan naye logo se milna sa band ho gaya. Ek naye shehar gaya tha naukri karne, bhot se log mile lekin dost sirf kuchh hi the (Jaha hamesha har aadmi dost hota tha), Fir saali Backbone fracture ho gayi toh ek mahine bistar pe bhi tha!

Abhi ek bank main naukri kar raha hu (Resign kar diya vaise yaha se bhi).. Tika nahi jata mujhse ek jagah dhang se.

But acha hai sab, lagta hai ki kuch naya aur acha bhi seekha hai, apni iccha ka chahte hue bhi na kar pana, ya kisi ki parwah kiye bina kuchh bhi kar dena!

Shayad badal gaya hu, pata nahi!

Socha nahi tha ki jis cheez (writing) se bachpan main nafrat karta tha, usse aaj ek aisa jazbaat bana lunga ki likhe bina chain nahi aayega!

Bahut logo ne raaye di, aisa karo, vaisa karo, ye nahi woh karo. Kuch ki suni, kuchh ki nahi. vajah nahi hai koi!

Aaj bhi likhne ke liye kuch khaas hai nahi kyunki koi nayi baat hai nahi!

Ye likhte samay hazaar bar dimag main aaya ki post na karu lekin khud se wada kiya tha ki likhna adhura mat chhodna! Kabhi bhi..

Ye likhne ki ek alag se duniya hai, jaha wahi log shayad pahuch sakte hain jo likhte hain. Vaise har insaan ki aisi ek duniya hoti hai jisme woh kho jata hai.. Acha hai! Sabki ek alag duniya bhi honi chahiye!

Sach main likhne ka bada mann hai, bahut kuch aa raha hai dimag main likhne ko lekin shayad ek din.. EK DIN jab kahin akela betha hunga tab shayad likhunga.. Jaha kuch sahi galat na ho.. Jaha koi bura acha na maane.. Jaha har insaan apne liye acha kar raha ho.. Shayad wahi se duniya ka acha hona shuru ho jaye! 🙂

Kabhi Kabhi sochta hu ki jaha din bhar main jo kaam karte hain, jaise sochte hain, kya vaisa hu main ya ye jo likhta hu main! Shayad yahi hu.. Ye Meri Jagah hai!

Jaha koi kuchh bhi kahe woh acha bura nahi lagta!

Fir likhunga ya shayad nahi.. pata nahi!

Asta – la – Vista!

Bechaara Woh!

Hello Everyone!

It’s been long since I’ve written in Hindi.. toh aaj kuchh gadar machai jaaye!

Taare Zameen Par!! I know sabko ye movie yaad hogi and I’m sure Ishan Avasthi se sabko sympathy bhi hogi but kabhi socha ki Ishan jaise kitne bechaare bachche hamari school seat ke baju main bethe hote the?

Ek bechaara, homework karne main koi interest nahi, average word bhi shayad zada tha uske liye.. Teachers ke thapad aur gaaliyo se din ki shuruat aur baap ke criticism aur thapad se din ka antt.

Jab ye movie dekhi thi tab mere dimag main ek hi insaan aaya tha.. Naam baad main bataunga but let’s first see his life story.

I’ll refer that person with the name Ishan for now.

Ishan, paid hua ek middle class family main. Parents as usual jaise sabke hote hain, maa pyar karne wali aur baap bhi karta tha pyar lekin agar thapad kam maarte toh aur pyara lagta. Jab tak school jaane ke liye janaab bade nahi hue the tab tak bhot aish ki, daily aam khaana, toys and glasses and cups todna unka shauk tha lekin aaj woh shauk hi bhul gaye hain janaab.

School ki shuruat se hi ulti ginti shuru ho gayi thi, Assembly main prayer ke time aankh na band kari toh punishment main ek thapad class teacher se aur ek maa baap se. Jab bade hue aur duniya samajh aane lagi tab shayad icchayein bhot thi lekin puri kahan hoti. Toffee maangne pe minnattein karni padti aur padhai ke bhai chor the.

School se aane ke baad maa jab dopahar main sone ko bolti thi toh shehzade ko nind nhi aati thi aur woh chupke se, dabe pao faraar ho jate the aur unka rukh office ya cricket ki taraf hota tha.

School main jab homework ki baat aati thi toh woh hota nahi tha aur jawab main milte the puri class ke saamne thapad, ghuse, mukke aur award main milti thi dustbin ke pass wali jagah floor pe.

Homework na karna uski aadat thi aur actually point samajh nahi aata tha ki homework karke milega kya.. Lekin na teacher sunte the aur na Maa Baap.. Mile toh sirf bhare school ke saamne thapad aur gaaliyan.

Kabhi kabhi har Maa Baap ki tarah pyar se samajhaate the lekin bechaara itna pareshan tha aur sochta tha ki karu kya agar nahi hota toh. Bimar nahi tha woh lekin who karna hi nahi chahta tha. Sab bole kaam chor hai, nakaara hai, badtameez hai, besharam hai.

Dadi aur Dada ka laadla tha bhai lekin unke pass rehta hi kitne dino ko tha woh, Vapas school hi jana.

Jab janab bade hue toh zindagi ka pehla pyar hua class main and as usual har ladke ki tarah ye One Way Traffic tha. Ladki ke alawa puri class jaanti thi uske dil ki baat lekin bhai beizzat hota tha ussi ke saamne. Ussi ladki ke saamne zameen pe beth kr school main saalo nikaal diye.

Maa ko Parent Teachers Meet pe Teachers se milne main sharam aati thi aur baap ko gussa. Jawab sirf yahi hota tha ki isko hostel main daal do, maar maar kar sudhar denge. Mere khayal se agar daal dete toh hi behtar tha, Maa Baap ke thapad toh na milte.

Jab bechaara rota tha tab aankhein meech leta tha aur zor zor se rota tha, sirf ek hi baat bolta tha, koi mujhe pyar nahi karta. Shayad sab usse acha banana chahte the lekin ye kabhi nahi puchha ki Tu Kya Bann Na Chahta Hai?

Silsilaa chalta raha beizzati ka aur school main kabhi fail, kabhi pass, belt aur gaaliyan kha kar thoda bada hua. Uske dost ache the, jaan chidakte the uspe lekin faayeda kya? Uthaate kuchh toh faayeda hi the aur kuchh chup rehte the. Bhai hamesha table pe khade rehta tha kyuki woh baat bhot karta tha, hasta bhot tha, shararat bhot karta tha aur shayad ye kisi ne naa samjha lekin usse pata tha ki woh kuchh karega Zindagi main.

School badal diya Baap ne uska, bola bade school main daalenge tujhe. Woh School bade logo ka tha, 3 saal tha woh uss school main aur agar gino toh shayad school life main uske dost ek bhi nahi tha. Ek dost bana tha lekin fir woh bada aadmi bann gaya aur woh uske saath rehta bhi kyu bhai, scholar tha woh!

3 saalo main se jo pehla saal tha usme pehle din class main ghuste hi classmates ne bully kiya. Naam mile usse bhot saare Bandar, Monkey Brand, Pokhla, Muh Khulau aur sach main har ek naam se usko sirf rona aata tha aur mann main ek hi baat sochta tha ki in sabka jawab dunga sabko lekin pata nahi kaise. Uss pehle saal main woh kuchh mahine kisi se baat nahi karta tha. Jiss bechaare ko bolne aur hasne ki aadat thi aur mahino tak school main kuchh nahi bolta tha. Chup chaap ek kone main, akele apni seat pe betha rehta tha. Apne purine dosto aur school ko miss karta tha lekin koi na samjha uske mann ka haal. Sabka jawab sirf yahi hota tha ki ye CHUTIYA BANDAR HAI. Har ladki pe uska crush tha lekin woh usko ek aankh na dekhti.

Gharwalo ko laga thik hai sab, ho jayega sab lekin ek saal nikal gaya. Agle saal section badle, bachche badle lekin bhai wahi ka wahi tha. Ek dost mila tha jo school main naya naya aaya tha, uske jaise kayi aur bhi naye aaye the aur sabne diya usse inaam main dhoka. Socha tha usne ki ek din sabko jawab dega, pata nahi kaise lekin dega.

Teesre saal ki toh bechaare ki shuruat hi zordar thi, class ke 30 bachcho ne usse corridor main zameen pe patak kar laato aur ghuso se gaaliyan dekar maara tha. Marta kya na karta woh waha se bhaaga. Do dost aaye ki saalo ko sabak sikhayenge.. Sikhaaya bhi lekin beizzatti bhot hui thi bhai ki. Kasam khaayi thi ki badla lega sabse lekin abhi sirf zindagi ki shuruat thi.

Fir aakhri school badla aur mile kuchh sachche dost jo uske dost uske liye the. Tab tab shehzaade gaaliya dena seekh chuke the. Ab woh aur logo se smart tha lekin beizzat aaj bhi hota tha. Uski aadat kharab nahi thi bas woh better bann na chaahta tha. Sab log English main bol lete the lekin bhai ka haath yaha bhi tang tha thoda.

School ke aakhri dino main Baap ne Engineering Exams ke form ke liye itna force kiya ki dimag zindagi ko khatam karne ke khayal tak gaya lekin fir usko woh kasam yaad aayi ki usse zindagi main kuchh karna hai..

College aa gaya ladka, apne bal bute pe. Baap ne donation dena chaaha lekin usne mana kar diya. Usko lag raha tha ki ab zindagi ki nayi shuruat karenge. Naye log, naye dost, nayi kahaani. Aur iss bar usne sab naya kiya.. College main Drama kiya, Song Gaya, Dance bhi kiya, Jo kabhi stage pe khada nahi hua tha ab woh debate kar raha tha stage pe. Audience ko bhi face kar raha tha.

Maa ne usko ab bolna chhod diya tha kyuki maa ka mann jaanta tha ki uska beta kuchh alag karega lekin Baap ko darr tha ki usne bete woh struggle na karna pade jo usne kiya.

College main National Event Organize karaya, apna parcham desh main lehraya, ab woh apne main khush tha, usse apni manzil dikh rahi thi. Usko dikh raha tha ki shayad ab woh kasam puri ho jayegi.

Struggle ab bhi bhot tha kyuki college main kuchh karne ke liye saari politics and baton ko samajhna padta tha lekin bhai ko ab parwah kaha thi ab woh nikal pade the, college main log unhe jaante the, shararato ka level badh gaya tha aur gaaliyo ka bhi. Online dating ki thi ladke ne aur ladki ne di THULLU!

Hona hi tha, sab hona hi tha, International Event Organize kara liya bechaare ne, Team handle karne lag gaya tha, usse samajh aa rh tha ki Engineering uss se naa ho paayi toh ab woh kuchh aur dhund rh tha. Naukri ki tension kabhi nahi thi aur naa hi baap ke paise ka rubaab, bas kuchh kar guzarne ki lalak thi usme aur duniya ke saamne apna parcham lehraana tha.

College khatam hua toh maharaj naukri ke liye shehar chhod dusre shehar gaye, office waale shuru main acche the lekin 6 mahine main jab bechaare ne naukri chhodne ka decision liya toh office waalo ne bhi akela chhod diya, khaane ke liye bhi nahi puchha. Office ke peon ko uske aansu dikhte the lekin baaki ko nahi.

Usne ghar phone kiya, bola Papa naukri chhod raha hu, Baap bola aaram se chhod de, aaja vapas, apan yaha kar lenge kaam. Bhai ne khaa li thi kasam ab kuchh bhi ho jaye lekin naukri nahi karenge apan.

Vapas apne shehar aaya raat bhar bus main rote hue, socha fir saala tu hi haara. Lekin ab uska lakshya bada tha aur chha jaane wala tha. Sab puchhte the ki ab tujhe aage kya karna hai aur launde ka jawab tha, DHANDHA karunga.. Business!

Bole baap ko join karle lekin nahi bhai ko woh bhi gawaara nahi tha kyuki bachpan se itni maar jo khaayi thi toh jawaab kya deta woh duniya ko.

Khol di ek company, stupid si, koi lakshya nahi, koi raasta nahi lekin ye pata tha ki kuchh karna hai. Pehla target decide kiya 2 mahine kaam kiya aur mila kya… usse target scrap karna pada aur kaam thapp. Usne fir dusra target decide kiya lekin yaha bhi maat khayi bechaare ne aur haar gaya.

Jab kuchh na ho raha tha tab socha ki naukri kar lete hain lekin saala dusri Company ke CEO’s ko ye gawaare nahi tha ki woh muh fatt aur haara hua CEO hai apni company ka aur toh usse naukri bhi nahi mili.

Bhai ne naukri ka laalach chhoda aur aaram se beth gaya… Usko ussi bich 2 dost mile main jo bole, bhai bhot marwa li… Ab duniya main Chhed karenge.. Chal sab vapas shuru karte hain.

Duniya ko face karne ki himmat fir aayi aura aage nikal gaya who.. ab ye soch liya tha ki pichhe nahi dekhega… marr jayega lekin ye kaam pura karke uthega. Sabne kaam ke naam par sirf dilaasa diya aur paise nahi.

Uske baap ne usko aur uske dosto ko itna beizzat kiya ki uski himmat tut gayi lekin usko uske bachpan ke dost ne samjhaya.. bola bhai Baapo ka kaam hota hai humein demotivate karna.. tension mat le.. hum hain tere saath.. Itna bada socha hai toh saale ko bada banayenge apan.

Jab uska kaam hua tab uss bechaare ka Baap bhare stage pe sabke saamne bola ki shayad itna bada main nahi kar paata jo aaj mere bete ne kiya hai. Khushi se uski aankhein bhar gayi thi, sabki aankhein uski taraf thi, aaj duniya usko jaanti thi, aaj woh star tha, ek founder tha, ek insaan jiske kaam ko log saraah rahe the aur jaan rahe the. Jab uske bolne ka mauka aaya toh woh kuchh na bol saka. Aankhein uski bhar chuki thi aur gala choke ho gaya tha.

Sirf ek baat usne sabke saamne boli, ye mera kaam unn sab logo ka jawab hai jinhone usse maara, daanta, gaaliyan di, demotivate kiya aur criticize kiya. Ye unke liye bhi hai jo kuchh karna chahte hain.

Uske shabdo ke baad sab hue khade aur woh uski sapna pura hua… sab usko appreciate karne ke liye khade hue aur taaliyo ki gadgadahat se hall gunj gaya.

Usne jo company kholi thi woh luckily ek award ke liye nominate ho gayi. Vishwas nahi hua usko tab jab uski company ko short list kar liya gaya final round ke liye.

Aaj woh ye likh raha hai, Unn awards ka naam hai Tata First Dot powered by NEN Awards Most Innovative Students Startup of the year aur uski company ka naam tha.. Oyster International Trust of Model United Nations.

Aur Ishaan… uska naam

Naam banane ki koshish main woh lekin woh ye bhi seekh gaya ki inn sab baaton ke beech usne jo suna aur samjha woh shayad uske bhale ke liye hi tha!

Shayad ek Ishaan hum main se har kisi ke andar hota hai… Shayad!

A Stranger..

Hi People!

Things have been slow at my end in the New Year and I hope they are slow for you as well. I know that’s a stupid wish but for the upcoming roller coaster in the year, a slow start is indeed necessary! 😉

Well this one is yet again from a movie and this time it’s “New York I Love You”! While watching the movie I had no clue where the story is driving to but then I realized it’s about different people and their lives and stories in New York and because of the subtleness and unpredictable things and the faith people had in the city, they loved the city.

What I felt was common in every story was that, most of the people were unknown to each other. They were either just recent acquaintance or possible Strangers!

So here is to all the strangers we meet in life. Life can’t stop even if you are running through the worse of the times and the mere fact of making life interesting is to keep on meeting new people. It’s important to meet new people not just for randomness but for the sake of future.

I’m sure for those who don’t believe in meeting strangers, it is quite weird to go and meet random people, Right? But there is a fact on this that, in front of a complete stranger you can just be yourself! You don’t have to act normal if you are not, you don’t have to act crazy if you are not. Strangers don’t know you so you can just be yourself.

Strangers won’t judge you and frankly even if they do, you won’t be bothered about it at all. Strangers might give you a better suggestion for the situation you are in without being biased. Strangers might be the person you can trust more than anyone because you don’t have the fear to lose with him. Your expectations might or might not be fulfilled but if things worked out then you might be hooked up for the rest of your lives may be as Friends, Partners, Spouse, etc.

I have met many people at random at some conferences, weddings, travel, city rides, expedition, walking, parties, etc. and I’m sure each one of you have met.

So I’ll just pen down few point where you can find the encouragement to meet an unknown, A Stranger:

  1. You are traveling in train and you met a person reading a novel on Chetan Bhagat and you discuss about his taste and then his life and your and then you become friends with him. Or possibly, you don’t even ask his name and move ahead with a sweet memory;
  2. You met a girl in a party, standing alone at the corner and watching everyone. Taking an initiative to talk to her might make you a wannabe or hooker but it might end up being good friends for life;
  3. You met a girl during a conference, didn’t talk at all but then at the end after few days you might talk to her again and then you just get hooked her for life;
  4. You met a guy on street and didn’t have a lighter to light your cigarette and you asked him to light your cigarette. That guy might start hitting on you with his cheesy lines but then you never know he might be the Mr. Perfect for your life;
  5. You went for an expedition and met few girls on the trip and in the first place you were pissed with either one’s attitude and other one’s figure but possibly while having a drink at night after an adventurous rafting you end up being buddies who travel along for the rest of your lives;
  6. A girl calls you up to discuss about how to organize her conference and while discussing the same with a complete stranger you came to know that you have mutual friends and you have worked for the same organization in different cities for years and at the end you are Besties!
  7. You met a Conference staff member at a conference and find her cute while she said Thank You and Welcome and later on grabbed food and smoke together and became close friends;
  8. You met a guy at a conference and you both had come up with superb team building ideas and worked together and in future you might call up once or twice an year but talk for hours and discuss about the chicks you dated and your future aspect of being a CEO;
  9. You met a girl and tried your talent with her while flirting because find her hot but later on you might be that much unlucky that just having sex with her for once makes you her spouse for future;

I don’t have point number 10 or might be this is my Number 10..

A simple message to all of you out there is, take risks, meet new people, Meet A Stranger daily, have coffee, discuss your life, ideas and thoughts and I am sure he / she will prove to be better than the people you already have in life! 🙂

Asta La Vista! :-*

2015 – Hell Yeah!

So here it is yet again, A New Beginning!

2015 – Good or Bad? No clue but ambitions and inspirations are a lot to make this year a remarkable one.

So 2014 had gone now and I have just realized that what I keep telling others about Past and History, I am myself not over the things there were in past but I keep up the pace for not letting them affect my future and I will not let it happen.

Each one of us is obsessed with past or maybe I’m saying this, so that I can set myself feel good for it. Not that my past had been very struggling and it seems for the people who know about it but the things which had been on me are known to me.

Anyway, for 2015 I have no resolutions because resolutions are nothing but just false commitments which I do and end up not accomplishing them. So it’s better to do what you feel like and don’t resolute anything.

This year might be an year changing or might be a usual one but I’m sure I’ll learn a lot and I’m sure I’ll outcast my previous years and be proud of things what I did and made it remarkable.

What I look forward for this year in simple manner is just to feel a little sorted in life and not that confusing and frustrated.

Just a smile at the end and stress free is all that I look upon!

And yeah, it’s really not about New Year; It’s just about the fact that you accept that every day is a New Beginning and when things go wrong just Begin Again!

Love for all! 🙂

2014 – You Will Be Missed! :-*

 Hey!

I’m sure each and every one of you is looking forward for a new year and there are few like me who say that they really don’t care about New Year but then I’ll say they are the silent retards who believe in painting the coming year rather than celebrating the going year. But then we are hoping that next year will be so much better and trust me it will be and I can sign it for you all! 🙂

So let’s have a quick sneak peak in 2014 of my life month wise 😉

FLASHBACK 2014!

January

Year started with flirt with girl on phone and disappointment in life as the very first planning of my newly born organization failed. Went for Jaipur Literature Festival and it was disappointing as well. The fear had already started for the coming year but the first month ended up!

February

Second month of the year had my house’s renovation and made it look much more beautiful and gigantic, believe me I love that my house is huge! Anyway, first date of the year and spending nights in car on road and this month was remarking with love and nothing else.

March

Manipal Jaipur MUN was calling and meeting the real time people of the year who made my year memorable and yet so tiring! Hostel nights, fogs, drinks, drives, diplomacy, Holi, jumping of her Ex-boyfriend to hit me the right spot and I loved the month because of Manipal MUN and hated it because of Holi!

April

Encounter with police with heavy penalty and new plan for Oyster coming up which again didn’t seem to be yet so promising. Rohit’s brother marriage invitation for June, FORTI coming in to scene officially and Business Meetings started. Swati Dida (Nikhil’s Sister) marriage, night outs, Ajmer Trip, Mohit’s songs, Nick’s place and her at night, naked legs, Guitar and Nahargarh.

May

Searching for job and preparing for E-Litmus exam which ended up my regular trips to Delhi, city I hated the most but now I kinda like it. Heart break and knowing that loving someone was BLOODY MY PROBLEM. Farewell for her and depression with the entrance of desperation for a new one in life.

June

I didn’t make it for E-Litmus and didn’t get a job and that was just so expected but meeting with High Commissioners, Ministers and coming in lime light and getting so much attention this time. Rohit’s brother’s marriage and meeting old friends.

July

Few idiots screwing my life and my birthday surprise by Shrey which I can’t forget. Memorable one! Visit to Delhi and love from parents and friends. And Oyster Family came into being with Tejasvee’s Budha gift!

August

Oyster on papers, Website, Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, All across the world facing humiliation but got a backup from its Team! Struggle had started with meeting the sponsors, begging for money but didn’t work out and the things were not in place. Raghav coming back to life after such a long time and giving me a backup.

September

No sponsorship policy came into being, Paresh Sir’s support, Budget redefining, Delegates flowing in, Oyster being the most talked about MUN in the country. Money flowing in and still shortage of money. Offer from papa to take money and shut Oyster but got a denial from Team Oyster in a profound manner. Narendra Modi’s speech making our ideas and thoughts more strong.

October

Delegates set, Accommodation set, Venue Set, Speakers set, Gods Set and Oyster Flourished and banged everyone across the country with making people OYSTERed. Revenue in lacs and after paying all the bills yet managed for Life’s First Self Sponsored Trip to Hrishikesh. Proud feeling of being a Founder, President and Entrepreneur. And a Car Accident with a dog lover coming to life.

November

I started hating dogs the most and the reasons were just so simple for me. Breakup and Mutual Understanding and Finding Jobs again which didn’t get a good response yet. Proposing as Project Coordinator for International Corporate Delegation Tour to Africa with work piled up.

December

Connections lost with Dog Lovers, Struggle again, nothing to look forward, Backup from friends and family. African Tour Cancelled and I was happy! Old friends coming back with a smile and the most important Awards’ Nomination by Tata First Dot for Most Innovative Student Startup of 2014. And at last the real one came in to my life, the most desperate, the most horny, the most blunt outspoken and yet so sweet Friend! 😉

People have the notion that the year which has gone was bad but this year has been the life’s most nourishing, flourishing, lovable, hatable, debatable, depressed, suppressed and Beautiful!

I got to know how much I love my parents and how much they love me, I got to know that I have real friends finally in life who can die for me and for whom I can die but we prefer killing others. Entrepreneurship was the biggest gift I have received this year and meeting the world renowned personality all by me was just ecstatic.

I love 2014 and you will be sorely Missed Sir! :-*

Also, WordPress has also helped me giving me a report on my Blogging in the whole year, kindly click the link below and see it!

Click here to see the complete report.

Hasta La Vista.. See You Next Year!

The Closer You Look, The Less You See! ;-)

Hey Fellas!

Wassup People!

I was just discussing today with my girl that I love to show off. You know why? Because it’s been my entire childhood that I couldn’t realize I have things to show up but then recently I realized, I’ve things I can flaunt around and I’m proud off but now it’s not just about me, It’s about a Team, an entire Family, a bunch of losers and trust me we have been treated as losers..

Team Oyster! 😀

So here it is, I was watching the beautifully put up Magical Drive Movie: “Now You See Me” and well this was my second time; trust me today I got the real message and could relate to it. It says: “The Closer You Look, The Less You See!”

Indeed it’s true. I’ll tell you how!

Possibly you must be thinking why do I just booze up all the time about my life as an inspiration or struggle to you all, Right? Because I like it and I believe world loves to read things which are bad in the start and best at the end. I know BOLLYWOOD SUCKS and this is the entire story! 😉

So, I’ll tell you how I started and where did people start getting the entire thing wrong.

March, 2013 I started with my job at Ahmedabad with the people whom I loved the most but they couldn’t digest this to their egos about my answer to why I was leaving the job. Well simply, they had looked closely in my eyes and life and then they got bluffed and fooled and they saw the least of it. They didn’t see what is coming through.

Eyes were wet all night when I was running back to Jaipur in Bus and I pledged to make them realize their mistakes. Well it’s for my ego but then what is good without satisfying your ego and even if they don’t say it, I know somewhere they miss or may be now they understand the complete idea of quitting the so called: “Best International Recruiting Company” which they as well left just months later when I left… Interesting, right? 😛

I came back to Jaipur and explained my complete thought to my father and he didn’t asked me questions and just supported me and there he was right as he didn’t look too close, He was just too far as he knew that Something Bigger is Coming!

Months went and many stabbed my back and faith but that didn’t stop me because right when the time they were doing so, I had few at my back, waiting to hit them back, Team Oyster.. They rose.. Like the Horsemen!

A Chamber of Commerce kind of exploited my work and thoughts and then again I played in their hands but I had that hit on ego and pledged this time with Team Oyster that we are gonna answer them back with Oyster Model United Nations Conference 2014 and yet again the Chamber of Commerce was looking too closely and missed the fun and they looked very less instead!

We gave them a lick exactly where they wanted and needed and waited for. We scratched them at the right spot where they always scratched. 😉

We went to our Venue Partners and they said yes without any terms and conditions and yet again they knew something big was coming through and they looked from far off and they at the end managed to take a deep insight and saw it all and happy!

Ego satisfied, Conference happened, Chamber of Commerce was on our feet begging and saying sorry just with their eyes and rigorous handshakes and I loved it. But this was not the end and later on we had to face it again and slow and down with not so future planning and we were hit by further MUN Circuits and people around in our industry while they were making fun of us by Introducing the Gods in the Conference with the kicking attitude, our Secretary General was trying his luck by registering Oyster for some awards as a Startup and guess what! We had shut mouths yet again and the MUN Circuit this time became the victim as they looked deep down closely inside us but they didn’t see more, they saw very less and actually..

VERY LESS THEY SAW. You know why?

Because those not so happening stupid awards for which we tried our luck just replied us back in a glorious way by accepting our registrations and WE GOT NOMINATED!

Yeah, by the way the name of Awards is: TATA FIRST DOT’s MOST INNOVATIVE STUDENT’s START UP OF 2014 POWERED BY NEN AWARDS!

Yes, you read it right, The TATA!

So we are now nominated and we are half way there and just got a relief by knowing that someone trusts us in making GODS in the Conference and someone is willing to pay us for that! 😉

For now I would say, the NEN people saw from quite far away and they nominated us and I really don’t care if we lose the awards because I’ll be then sure that they must have looked very deep inside and they lost the sight because they didn’t the Big Thing Coming!

OYSTER!

Yeah, Now You See Us! :-*

No matter we lose or win the awards because one thing is for sure, whenever we are criticized it just helped my team believing that the BIG THING IS COMING and THEY ARE THE ONE WHO WILL BRING IT ON!

Do not mess around with us because…

When you think you can catch hold of us, we are right behind you! 😛

I Love You All! Thank you for voting for us.. Happy New Year! :-*

Oyster – Nomination for Most Innovative Start Up of 2014

Tata+First+Dot+Logo

Hola Amigos! 🙂

I have a story to tell today and good news at the end of it.

When I was in 2nd year during my under grad my father had asked me:

“What do you want to do with life? What is your aim? How will you do it? Kuchh socha hai life ke baare main?”

I said: “I want my own enterprise; I want to be an Entrepreneur”

Like everyone else in the world I got a reply saying: “Ya Right!”

You all know I went to Ahmedabad for my job and left it for no specific reasons but the vague reasons I gave to Branch Manager, Soniya were: “I wanted to work in Corporate Company; There is no system in our Company and shit like that!” but the fact is I didn’t want to work for someone who earns Crores of money with my hard work and so I just kicked it off!

I’m currently again looking for a Career Opportunity but now things are sorted and I can figure out good opportunities and companies for me.

Anyway, I left the job without any future in mind. All I had in mind was United Nations, Events, Blog, etc. and it all worked. It took more than a year but then it worked!

And the result of which my own Organization Oyster International is amongst the most loved organizations in the Circuit. People are crazy about it and trust me, if you join us, you will be crazy as well! 😉

So after all the hard work of my team, friends and family to bear my thoughts and stupid ideas,

Oyster International Trust of Model United Nations has been nominated for TATA FIRST DOT powered by NEN AWARDS for MOST INNOVATIVE STUDENT START UP of 2014.

We are one of our kind organizations and the first one in the league of this industry to have this nomination.

We need your blessings, support and VOTE (Power Click)

Kindly VOTE for us by following the below given steps. Just one power click of yours will make a history and you will be OYSTERed for life! 😀

Step 1: Click the Link: nominations.tatafirstdot.com/idea/get-idea/429

Step 2: Click “Vote This Start Up”

Step 3: A new window opens, log in with Facebook, Google or Linkedin

Step 4: Accept the Policies

Step 5: Click Again on “Vote This Start Up”

Step 6: The color of “Vote This Start Up changes to Green” and says: “Thank you for Voting!”

Note: Kindly share the message with your friends, family, relatives and be a part of this achievement and also comment on this post as soon as you are done with the Voting!

Wishes for Christmas and New Year!

A Mistake!

Hey!

I’m trying to keep a track on my life these days but as always the life doesn’t seem too sorted and yet I’m not happy but the fact is that we learn and experience more when we are in bad times.

I was just thinking about what we regret when something goes wrong and only one word comes in the mind i.e. “MISTAKE”

Mistake it simply means an act of blunder which is not done with ill intentions i.e. an act of blunder done in the sense of innocence.

So no person in the world commits a mistake with ill intentions and frankly we should judge them at all on this part because you don’t know what he is or what he has been through in his life. The grass always seems to greener on the other side and the word SEEMS should be emphasized more here.

No one is perfect and one should not be perfect and one should never strive to be perfect because the day you become perfect, you leave a zero figure to improve further on your part and you stop learning and experiencing better things. Mistakes are integral part of life and we should commit mistakes again and again but not the same ones because if you are repeating the same ones that simply means you didn’t learn anything from your previous ones.

Just making a mistake is not important, important is to learn from your mistakes and move ahead and make it correct otherwise you get in return is “THULLU” 😉

Our past has lot of mistakes and our past most of the times screw our lives because we let it do it. The mistakes done by us in past or the impact of someone else’s mistake in past is actually a thing of past and messing your present, people who love you in the present and care for you and the good things you have in your present shouldn’t be hampered because of your past.

Time is the biggest healer, the person who made your life miserable has no right to do so but just think due to that person’s mistake how much bigger mistake you are committing in your life when you are making your present miserable.

Try everything once in life to learn and make mistakes and rectify it and do the act again and solve it and let go. But it’s not necessary to make things always right, sometimes it’s good to leave the things as they are.

And there is a famous saying: “Maaf karne wala galti karne wale se zada bada hota hai!”

If you want to be big, happy and human you just need to let it go.

If your past boyfriend screwed you don’t mean the present one will do the same; if your last exam didn’t give you good score doesn’t mean the present one will be the same.

Commit a mistake daily, try something new every day, learn from it and move ahead.. Duniya ko sudharne ka theka nahi liya humne!

Spread Love in your present, Tumhara past khush ho kar fir saamne aayega, Tab samajh lena ki picture ab clear hai aur purana koi hisaab baki nahi hai! 😀

Phir Se Udd Chala – Kahani Oyster Ki! <3

Phir Se Udd Chala!

It’s now been a year to resign my first job and now I have got placed in other company anyway to earn, learn and contribute and make my own!

Anyway, it’s been quite a long time that the facts have not been discovered or rather the realities have not been shared with you. Even if you are parents, friends or family or whosoever you are, mind it, it is personal and all for one.

On 29th July, I had put down my resignation at Universal Hunt with proud and not regretting it but then when I came back to Jaipur I started regretting it because what I realized was my own people are against me.

I was trying to be Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg and what not but I found that the life is much difficult than these guys have experienced or may be everyone’s life is.

Me and Vishal gave it a fresh start on 9th September, 2013 and trust me with no idea we had or maybe I had but Vishal was being a counterpart for me and soon he too went for his life and in the mean time I met Mudit and tried and understanding things about UN, MUN and Societies, Trusts, etc. It looked so much easier but when I was digging deeper, it was getting lot more frustrating and painful.

So finally, on 1st November, 2013 Oyster International Trust of Model United Nations was registered with Me, My father and my sister being the Trustees but trust me only I had a vision and its quite natural because they didn’t know about any shit of my idea and vision and then I got in touch with Mr. Prem Biyani who wasted my 3-4 good months and I was nowhere.

My father’s reply on my idea of UN awareness was that you can’t make money but just brand but not even brand I would say and now he says, I’ll consult you for this and this time I being the President, I’ve kept the decision to myself.

I met few jerks in the mean time when I planned to organize Oyster International Model United Nations Conference which never happened but the team included, Shrey, Tejasvee, Yamini, Pooja, Nishant, Shubhangini, Nishesh, Apoorv, Rohit Gandhi, Vatsal Jain but out of which only Shrey and Tejasvee were the real jerks who got stuck with my bullshit of UN awareness and started breathing UN, eating UN and living UN.

Rohit proved to be a big time criticism which was sometimes good but sometimes irritating but he was there supporting my back always. Vatsal always waited for the news for our come back and he was there. Shubhangini and Nishant were in haywire and Mr. Nishesh Bhasin named as the best in the MUN Circuit did practically nothing rather than just being very busy and very kind which didn’t help me in work.

So, the very first idea of International MUN was dropped and Oyster faced its first failure and we all stopped but 4 people didn’t i.e. Rakshit Goyal, Tejasvee Tandon, Shrey Saxena and Rohit Gandhi.

In the mean time I had few special friends in life viz. Monalisha Saran, Vishi, Smriti, Vritika and my dear one Avni.

Rohit gave another idea of training sessions of MUN which failed deeply because I myself lost hope and then I started searching for my job again, disheartened with love, life and what not.

In the mean time I started working for the Africa Tour which is finally going in January and Yes I’m going too.. (Free of Cost) 😉

At one hand I was travelling Delhi again and again and Shrey was master planning my birthday bash and it was the best anyone can have in his life.

So Oyster was like a rotten egg where we didn’t even check our website for quite long and this was the time when Me, TJ and Shrey were sitting at Jai Garh Fort in the morning on 6th July, 2014 when TJ said: “Bhai ek chhota MUN karte hain, vaise bhi kuchh ho nahi raha toh khaali bethne se badiya hai ki kuchh karte hain” and to my amusement and shock Shrey agreed to it and I was still not sure to start it again all over and I said you guys do it and get back to me with details and this reply of mine was just to hide my failure and lower confidence level which these two buggers noticed very well and trust me they did work and then Oyster Model United Nations web page was introduced and Oyster Facebook page boomed in just days to a number from 275 to 700 not within a week.

So we started working and this time completing the documentation part and started driving and driving and meetings all the day with no food, no water, no drinks just Oyster in heads and this time we thought it will happen.

Later on when situation started worsening then my childhood friend Raghav, mera bhai.. added to the team and the Keshav, then Vartika, then Himanshu, then Rohit, then Kanika, Avantika, Smriti, Vishi, Gayatri, Vritika and out of which only 4 people out performed before the conference and they were Raghav, Shrey, Tejasvee and of course me because I had started the shit.

Avantia, Vishi, Kanika, Himanshu, Rohit, Keshav, Vartika, etc. came to action when I had declared on 22nd September, 2014 that I’m shutting down Oyster because my father made me realize that you can’t make this thing happen. But then Raghav said: “Bhai hamare baapo ka dharm hai humein demotivate krna aur ab saala challenge kiya hai aur tujhe Oyster ko UN le jana hai.. toh ab toh karna padega.. karna hi padega.. Bula saale sabko kal.. bol kaam karo ya satak lo!”

I called everyone the next day but Vritika, Smriti, Vishi and Gayatri didn’t come and I had to take Vritiki, Smriti and Gayatri off the board but not Vishi because uspe ek ajib sa bharosa tha.

Planning vapas hui, funds fir evaluate hue, cost cutting hui, hum sab pakke Marwadi Baniye bann gaye the aur aaj bhi hain.. “Darte hain kya!” 😉

Kuchh hi dino main what my father said was just taken as a challenge and saala sab ho raha tha. People were getting crazy with I AM OYSTERed Hash tags! It was on fire and people were dying to come.

We were competing with the best of MUN’s nationally in the country on the dates we had planned but we exceptionally out performed. The way we roared was heard by the whole country.

I had my friends, family, love back and yes Love came to life and still it is!

Sab aaye saale har ek aaya, Cartoon (Sakshi), Nishant, Rohit .. sab.

Aur fir 10th ki raat jb main subah 4 baje tk training de raha tha aur sab so rahe the, Hats off to MSS Students! I love you guys.. you were too good.

4:30 AM morning I finally reached my room (so called room) and had my friends there sleeping, I went up to Avni and asked started shivering and to which she replied with a hug and said: “Tera sapna kuchh hi ghanto main pura hone wala hai” and started shivering more and she said something it changed life completely and for that I’m thankful to her.

My dad offered INR 1, 00, 000 for the event in case I fail but my team’s ego and self-esteem was enough to ignore the donations, “Sorry We Don’t Take Donations and In Kind!”

11th Morning came up, Raghav aa chukka tha aur main tensed tha but things started flowing and sab easily hone laga aur Opening Ceremony hone wali thi.. Shrey, Me and TJ ne obviously speech teyar nahi kit hi ya yu bolo ki jab khaane ki fursat nahi toh speech kaha se likhte par jo mann main aaya sab bol diya 😛

Sab kuchh thik tha but when my father talk over the Mic and said the truth: “I Told Rakshit it won’t work but I’m a proud father to admit that I was wrong and to his entire I just have this to say that I’m glad to be wrong today.”

Jaipuria’s Asst. Dean said in her speech: “I earlier thought bachche hain , kya karenge but then she too confessed that she had never seen such work by under grads and school going students” and my team replied with: “I’m OYSTERed!”

Sach achha tha, jab closing aayi tab pata hi nahi chala ki sab khatam ho gaya aur meri final speech, Jis izzat, pyar aur pehchaan ke liye zindagi bhar tadpe the woh aaj log dene ke liye marr rhe the.. Oyster, Rakshit, President, TJ, Shrey, Keshav, Raghav, Smriti, Avni, Kanika, Vartika, Himanshu, Vishi, Rohit bas sab jagah yahi gunj rhaa tha..

Samajh nahi aa rha tha ki humne aisa kiya kya ki har kisi ki speech pe standing ovation mil rha tha. Sapna dekha tha lekin socha na ki aise pura hoga.

Jab closing speech ki baat aayi tab muh se bol nahi nikal rahe the aura ankh se aansu, khushi aur gum dono ke the woh. Tadap gaya tha khush hone ko ek saal se aur jab kiya toh aise ki jab TJ ne unexpectedly bola: “We are not sure that we will be able to do it again” tab ek dum se Gandhi bhai khade hue saying: “You want to know we guys thing you did?” TJ said: “Ya!” and that very moment I saw each and every one standing in the hall and hailing and bending and shouting for our success.

I just ended up there hugging my beloved ones and Oyster Model United Nations Conference 2014 came to an end with a legacy to look forward.

I could see people’s whatsapp and facebook status as I AM OYSTERed for weeks even after the conference and that made us realize that we have just started the work and we will go a long way.

Sab kiya, sab samjha, kaun apna kaun paraya lekin ek baat mere baapu ne kahin thi ek bar aur shayad hum sabke baapo ne kahin hai: “Sapna kabhi mat dekho, sapne kabhi pure nahi hote” lekin sach ye hai agar hum uss waqt unki baat na sune na aura aage badh jaye tab hamare baapu hi bolenge: “I’m Glad to Lose with my son today!”

Thank you for making it happen, My Executive Board Members, International Press Team, Photography and Production Team and special thanks to the Pearls of Oysters i.e Our Delegates!

Aur baki bache mere sher, saalo tumhare jaan zindagi bhar lunga main.. chhodne wala nahi hu.. Shrey Saxena, Tejasvee Tandon, Raghav Maheshwari, Keshav Modi, Himanshu Sharma, Avantika Jain, Rohit Gandhi, Smriti Basu, Vartika Goyal, Vishwnath, Avinash Soni, Ankush D Singh, Puru Agarwal, Shailendra Paliwal, Manpreet Kaur, Sakshi Uniyal, Nishant Kumar, Rahul Menon, Yashi Prasad, Manisha Singhal, Rajat Mathur, Anusha Sharma, Bhrigu Sharma! I so love each one of you :-*

Asta La Vista! :-*

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